




That journey was overwhelming!
There were the countless day-to-day logistical details.
There were the emotional ups and downs for her and for me.
There were hospice arrangements and many decisions to be made.
Work, family, kids all needed me. I needed help too.
But, what I discovered was that taking care of my mom on her final journey was one of the richest, most life affirming experiences I'd ever had.
I want to help you to have the same discovery on your journey.
Life collides head-on with this all-encompassing commitment!
A lot is going on when there is a terminal diagnosis.
There are lots of details you have to quickly learn:
- how to set up with hospice
- caregiving basics - How do I do this?
- regular life obligations
- your loved one's constantly changing physical needs
- their emotional needs and how to help them navigate them.
In this book you'll find practical guidelines for:
Determining you first steps after hearing the news
Charting the course with hospice as your partner
Dealing with your loved one's emotional roller-coaster
Navigating demands of marriage, family, children and career
Handling the daily, ongoing physical challenges and demands
Confronting common fears and unresolved emotional issues
Working through inner conflicts around faith and God
Managing the myriad post-passage details and arrangements
Finding closure, returning to routine and reflecting on the journey
And, you will find a workbook and a place to journal at the end of every chapter. I've truly written the only book you need for this journey.
Peaceful Passage is your essential, all-in-one guide to handling every aspect of this often heart-wrenching and heartwarming journey.
Let me show you how I can help you.

Don't know anything about caregiving? I didn't either but I learned what I needed to know to care for my mother and then put all of that and more into this book. Don't know how to take care of your dying loved one's emotions while also caring for your and your family's?
As a PhD counselor I have you covered.
"Peaceful Passage" melds caring for yourself while walking your loved one on their final journey. It is filled with so much information, so much personal help, and powerful tools from first hearing the news to beyond closure after the funeral that this is the only resource you will need.
I really wished I'd had a book like this when my mother was dying. So I wrote one for you.
I had no idea what to do, what was coming, and how to handle any of it the physical needs that were coming. But, here's what I did know...
I, as a professional counselor, knew what I needed to do to not only help my mother through this end of her life but how to care for my own emotions and that of my family as we took this journey together.
I started to learn the physical, caregiving skills I had never had a reason to learn. I sure needed them then. Mom's need changed almost daily as her body succumbed to the cancer.
It was a steep learning curve and I felt the struggle to keep up. You won't have to because Peaceful Passage includes everything you need to know to care for someone losing their normal abilities and becoming bed ridden - seriously. I had no idea what to expect. Would I know when we were near the end? What is it like to die?
There are questions I needed answers quickly.
getting organized
safety
visitors
eating and drinking
bathing and hygiene
bowel and bladder
skin hygiene and problems
exercise
transfers
ambulation
sleep
medications
pain management
when to call hospice for help
and more
This is the biggest learning curve and I've put everything you could possible need to know in here. I'll even teach you how to change the bed while your loved one is in it. I truly have added all you need to know right at your fingertips.
And there is a full index so you can look up what you need quickly.
2. You Will Learn Everything You Need to Know to Emotionally Care For Your Loved One, Yourself and Your Family

This is my area of expertise and I will share with you how to move through this time well.
I've included counsel on how to deal with your loved one's fears of losing control, pain and suffering, the unknown, unfinished business, abandonment and being alone, and actually dying.
You will become equipped to help them to find their own closure from worldly concerns, their relationships, meaning, acceptance, and love.
You will learn to help them finish well, tell their story, remember and forgive.
I will help you with your and your loved one's feelings of grief, stress, depression, overwhem and exhaustion, loneliness, fear and anxiety, anger, helplessness, resentment, guilt, and insecurity.

3. You Will Be Enabled to Hit the "Go" Button to the Life You've Only Dreamed of.
No more waiting in the background for a spot to open up for you to have an amazing life. It's time for you to step into your God-given, Spirit-empowered design with purpose and joy.
When you have finished the book, you will never need to ask for permission to live your life again and you will never feel the need to apologize for wanting to be more and live more.

3. You Will Be Enabled to Turn This Hard Situation Into a Life Transforming Experience for All
You will find yourself in the journey.
Love even deeper and better.
Serve others well.
Face your emotions and not be ruled by them.
Stop isolating and protecting your heart.
Stop being controlled by others' guilt trips.
Work on your own unfinished business, and
Find balance in your life.

4. Address the Spiritual Aspects of This Journey.
This is not a "Christian" book.
I am a Christian and I don't hide it. You may not be, but I guarantee you that when life and death is at stake everyone thinks about what comes after this life.
Because that is true, there is a chapter on dealing with faith, no faith and how to move through this area well.
We will talk about tested faith, anger at God, what God is up to on this journey and I'll help you process this.

Who do you call, funeral homes, making the calls, what to do at the mortuary, the costs, telling their story, planning the funeral, closing their estate and packing up their things. We are going to walk through all of this together.
Next is grief.
There are emotional, mental, physical, behavioral, and social changes from grief. Let's talk about it.
I'll help you decide if you are stuck in grief and how to find help. I'll talk with you about the work of grief, integrating their life into yours and saying goodbye. I'll also help you to know what to do for children in grief.
Together we will find peace and get back to life.
We will find the joy in your journey and who you have become along the way. You might just be amazed at your strength, resilience, and peace.
5. After the passing I'll still be here to help you.




(And no, it's not a gimmick.)
I am selling each book at the cost of printing and shipping, and not a penny more. Printing each book was $3. Packaging and shipping is $6.94. Buying this book will cost $9.94.
Why am I doing this?
Because if your loved one is dying in your home then you need help in so many ways!
I know what this is like. IT IS HARD! And it's hard in ways you can't imagine yet.
But, I've been there! I cared for my mother until she took her last breath! I know what it takes and what you need to make it through this journey well.
First, there is the impact when you first hear the news? What do I do? I'll guide you through these first steps.
Now, your loved one is coming to your home. I will walk you through getting set up for food, hygiene, caregiving and more.
Okay, my loved one is home and there is the hands-on caregiving (I'll teach you what you need to do), family, children, work, emotions - oh so many emotions. I've got you covered. I'll walk you through all of this step-by-step.
As your loved one gets closer to the end, I'll be there as your guide and counselor.
You will know what each new symptom means so that you are ready when the end comes.
We will walk through their emotions, fears, regrets and bringing them to closure. Yours too.
We will plan the funeral together, work through grief and more.
You definitely need guidance. Let me help you.
Your most asked questions...
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If you're not happy, I'm not happy!
Meet The Person Who Wrote THE Only Book You Will Need For This Journey...


Kim West hold a PhD in Clinical Pastoral Counseling and an M.Div in Counseling and Family. Peaceful Passage represents a merging of her years of life and counseling experience with new skills acquired as the primary caregiver during her mother's final journey.
After finishing the journal she wrote during her journey (you can read it in the back of the book) she realized just how hard and amazing the journey had been and wanted to help others going through this.
For months she worked full time in creating the best handbook she could so that you will be able to navigate these difficult waters well.
What she will deliver to you will be more than a book, it will become a friend, nurse, mentor and counselor. You will use this incredible resource every day.



